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How I Broke Free from the Fantasy I Built Around Him
On projection, emotional manipulation, and walking away with my power intact How do you let go of a fantasy you’ve been shaping in your mind for years? It wasn’t just the idea of love — but the illusion that he could provide it. I kept hoping he’d grow into the version I saw in my head — the one who…
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How Honoring My Energy and Values Reshaped the Way I Create, Connect, and Date
A reflection on shifting, discerning, and choosing relationships that align with who I am becoming I sit with pen in hand — or rather, iPencil and iPad. I tried going back to pen and paper the other day, thinking it might bring something fresh, but I realized I’m enjoying this new way of writing. There’s something playful and…
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Uncovering the Sensual Force That Threatened to Destroy Me
Exploring the duality of desire and restraint, a journey into self-acceptance and inner peace After a night like last night, where I tossed and turned, yearned and trembled in fear, I awaken and cleanse myself of the demons. I resurrect clarity through writing. Last night, I felt a part of me wanting to awaken. And I…
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For the Women Who’ve Loved Deeply, Lost Themselves, and Are Ready to Return Home
A gentle reckoning for those ready to honor the voice within For women whose hearts are open and those who get attached too quickly I started and ended yesterday’s writing session with this statement. I left it on the page. But today, as I sit, I feel more in my power. Today is a day of…
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How Looking Back Can Light the Way Forward
What past pain, present intuition, and reflection taught me about love, self-worth, and staying open I admit it: I’ve been vetting potential partners through online video conversations. Facial expressions — and, when visible, body language — can be quite telling. You can feel someone’s energy on a video call, right? It’s subtle, but it’s there. Being present, observing, and tuning…
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